Leonard Cohen

Book of Longing

“I can't make the hills
The system is shot
I'm living on pills
For which I thank G-d
I know she is coming
I know she will look
And that is the longing
And this is the book”

Leonard Cohen (1934 – 2016), was many things: a singer, writer, poet, archivist of the human condition. The Book of Longing, written and illustrated by Cohen, contains much of the poetry and verse written during the last two decades of his long life.

“Too Old”

I am too old
to learn the names
of the new killers
This one here
looks tired and attractive
devoted, professorial
He looks a lot like me
when I was teaching
a radical form of Buddhism
to the hopelessly insane

Cohen, a famous monastic, writes of the fear of being interrupted, things we keep around us and make special through caring, and anxiety he calls longing.

“The Book of Longing”

For less than a second
Our lives will collide
The endless suspended
The door open wide

Then she will be born
To someone like you
What no one has done
She’ll continue to do

I know she is coming
I know she will look
And that is the longing
And this is the book

Longing for what? Life? Something that doesn’t end? To be part of poet Mary Oliver’s stream of eternity or what Thoreau called the great Something. The answer lies in Cohen’s words above, that someone, anyone, will carry this/it/all/part forward. That he and this will endure through simple human connection.

A connection that extends our bounded existence outside the parameters of birth and death, a connection that returns to us throughout our lives when we cease to expect it. From Cohen’s “How Could I Have Doubted.”

I stopped looking for you
I stopped waitin or you
I stopped dying for you
and I started dying for myself
I aged rapidly
I became fat in the face
and soft in the gut


Why did you come back to me tonight
I can’t even get off this chair
Tears run down my cheeks
I am in love again
I can live like this

Cohen died in 2016 but he left so many albums collections and words of comfort in his wake he certainly endures strongly. Travel writer Pico Iyer interviewed Cohen at his mountain retreat and had a beautiful conversation about stillness and silence.

Read Longing alongside other works that praise a meaningful human connection, like the warm, generous advice on life from actress Anna Deavere Smith and the work of psychiatrist Irving Yalom who believed human connection is an antidote to our death anxiety.