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"Ta-Nehisi, Wake-Up": A Conscious-Expanding Memoir of Race, Childhood and Truth

"'Ta- Nehisi, wake-up.' This was all my father wanted - for the long struggle to wake us up."

By Ellen Vrana

When actress and writer Anna Deavere Smith wrote her heart-hewn advice to aspiring artists, she beckoned those who "long to be awake." To be awake, as Deavere Smith used it two decades ago, is more than the politicized term today; it means understanding a reality outside one's own. It is simultaneously empathy and passion, knowing our horizons rather than seeing our view as all there is.

This precise motivation was the defining feature of Ta-Nehisi Coates' (born September 30, 1975) slow lurch into adulthood. Born Black in mid-seventies Baltimore, Coates was a victim of place and time.

The greater world was obsessed over Challenger and the S&L scandal. But we were another country, fraying at our seams. All the old rules were crumbling around us. The statistics were dire and oft-recited—1 in 21 killed by 1 in 21, more of us in jail than in college.

The Beautiful Struggle is a memoir of Ta-Nehisi and his father, Bill Coates, a man of discipline, order, humility, and intellectualism who relentlessly pursued consciousness of being.

My father was a Conscious man. He stood a solid six feet, was handsome, mostly serious, and rarely angry. On weekdays, he scooted out at six and drove an hour to the Mecca where he guarded the books and curated the history in the exalted hall of the Moorland-Spingarn Research Center...

But at night, he barbecued tofu, steamed basmati, and thought of sedition. He'd untuck his shirt, descend into the cellar, and comb through layers of ancient arcana. He collected out-of-print texts, obscure lectures, and self-published monographs by writers like J.A. Rogers, Dr. Ben and Drusilla Dunjee Houston... These were the words they did not want us to see, the lost archives, secret collections, folders worn yellow by water and years. But Dad brought them back.

Bill Coates swept his son into consciousness, awake to a not immediate yet pervasive reality.

He began in the basement of our Park Heights row house, with a tabletop offset printer and four out-of-print pamphlets brought back from the edge. It was 1978 and this was a different magic. The Panthers were a sweeping romance—the young promise of shooting and fucking your way out of Donna Reed and into Pam Grier. But when Dad went to publishing he scaled back into matrimony and left the world of mass upheaval. History would be altered, not in the swoop but with the long slow reawakening.

With a basement printing press and extraordinary drive, Bill Coates shepherded Ta-Nehisi through the "abyss where unguided Black boys were swallowed whole only to reemerge on corners and prison tiers."   In her memoirs, Maya Angelou wrote that she left the US South when her brother turned thirteen because it was a dangerous place to be a young, Black man. The point at which the illusions of expectations met a reality of an intolerant, prejudiced society.  
To awaken his sons to that offset became the focus of Bill Coates, "an intellectual, born as it happened among people who could not see a college campus as an outcome."

Consciousness was Bill Coates's legacy and, thus, Ta-Nehisi's inheritance. The alternative was dire.

The vultures among us corrupted everything. They were not growing into something better, they were not finding their deeper selves. The Knowledge was a disease. Some took to it faster than others. But eventually we all got it... We were just like boys everywhere, dreaming of model trains, Captain Marvel, and chemistry sets. But for us there were orcs outside the door, blood in their teeth and always waiting. At some point we grew tired of crumbling under their boots and embraced the Knowledge, became like all the rest groping for manhood in the dark.
Photograph of handprint featured in Ta-Nehisi Coates Photograph by Ellen Vrana.

Ta-Nehisi continues his father's work in The Beautiful Struggle, challenging our natural hierarchies and taxonomies. Being "from here" is better than being "from there." That family should be definable and nameable.   I love what Coates writes on family:   
"Here's the cast of my last name. My father has seven kids by four women. Some of us were born best friends. Some of us were born the same year... This is all a mess on paper, but it was all love to me, and formed my earliest and still enduring definition of family."
That white is better than Black.

He dismantles and reassembles our comforting knowledge of what is.

The Beautiful Struggle offers a rich understanding of the name and a counterpoint to something written by Durga Chew-Bose: Her name, often unpronounceable, anchors her to a faraway homeland.

Coates agrees his name sets him apart: "Ta-Nehisi was hyphenated and easily bent to the whims of anyone who knew the rudiments of dozens." But he also appreciates its vast scope: "Seeing that handle among the books of glorious Africa, I knew why I could never be a Javonne or Pete; my name was a nation."

A nation. What a glorious, vast—deserved—expansion of self. Toni Morrison once wrote that there were two responses to chaos: naming and violence. Naming can be literal and a way of ordering and making sense of a world beyond understanding.

Illustration of Ta-Nehisi Coates-xs.

When I contemplate The Beautiful Struggle, the words bang on my cortex, asking me to understand.

Coates mentioned the Challenger Space Shuttle. I watched the Challenger explode. I watched it explode as someone who knew—in the back of my mind, beyond consciousness and doubt—that I would go to college. That I wouldn't die outside my front door. That certainty was a part of me I could never immolate.

How am I to understand otherwise? How is anyone?

There are conflicting elasticizes of caring and understanding—both expand but not simultaneously. Too much of the former, and you risk trivializing. Too much of the latter, and you risk immunity to empathy.   I find myself at a much greater risk of too much caring, not enough understanding. I thus push against the limits of knowledge, expanding what I "know with all my being," to use a phrase from French philosopher Simone Weil.
Read more in Do Mirrors Tell Us Who We Are? and Can Knowledge be Gained Through Feeling?

I understand Coates best through his title: The Beautiful Struggle. "Beauty is truth," wrote John Keats. He also wrote, "I feel assured I should write from the mere yearning and fondness I have for the Beautiful even if my night's labours should be burnt every morning and no eye ever shines upon them."

The act of making beauty, the act of gaining truth, the act of learning Knowledge and Consciousness—the beauty and the struggle.

The Lesson

I keep on dying again.
Veins collapse, opening like the
Small fists of sleeping
Children.
Memory of old tombs,
Rotting flesh and worms do
Not convince me against
The challenge. The years
And cold defeat live deep in
Lines along my face
They dull my eyes, yet
I keep on dying,
Because I love to live.
From Maya Angelou's And Still I Rise

After reading The Beautiful Struggle, you might want to clasp a few others who seek and share this abundance of consciousness: Rachel Carson and Emerson on our overlooked kindship with nature, Toni Morrison and Billie Holiday on real and imagined society, poets Wilfred Owen and T. S. Eliot on death and suffering, and Rilke and James Baldwin on the deepest, unknown self.

To awaken. Is there anything else?

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